The Narcissist’s Altruistic Actions
The Narcissist’s Altruistic Actions
I’ve always been kind of fascinated by narcissists.
It’s almost magical how the self-love of these people can draw in an audience like moths to a fire.
The sad thing is that narcissists can’t control their outrageous self-infatuation because it serves as a crutch.
It’s like a painkiller that numbs the feeling of hurt that they had from a previous traumatic experience.
Nonetheless, these people are dangerous.
Imagine walking through a crowd: All those people going about their day, some glancing at you. Some are tall, some are short. Some are skinny, some are fa- [REDACTED BY THE MOST HOLY INQUISITION OF BODY POSITIVITY ]
A certain percentage of this diverse soup of humanity will be devilishly narcissistic.
Often, if you have these traits, you can harm people.
If I wasn’t such a recluse, I’d sit on a transatlantic Lufthansa flight jabbering on about myself while my exhausted German neighbor can only nod his head and go “Ja, Ja.”
Anyway, I got to thinking about some advice given by a LinkedIn guru who usually gives pretty decent information.
He was talking about how you need to promote yourself online every single day.
Whether its related your:
Product…
Brand…
Or maybe thoughts and interesting things that happened in your day.
The idea is that you will either get people who
– Adore you (customers)
– Despise you (who cares)
– Join you (network)
– Follow you (fans)
– Ignore you (already are)
And this got me thinking that there are ways to use your narcissistic powers for good and not evil.
You see, I agree with the guru’s point of view on this but with the caveat that the self-promotion needs to be interesting to your audience
Remember this formula, class:
Narcissistic Yet Entertaining > Just Narcissistic
Remember the principle I quoted yesterday from David Ogilvy, one of the greatest copywriters of all time: “Don’t bore people into buying your product. You can only interest them in buying it”
Professor Wes might give you a pop-quiz tomorrow.
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