Toxic Marketing Medicine for a Forlorn Feminist
If you’ve been reading my content for any length of time , you will probably have deduced that we here at the Sublime Persuasion Porte have a rather dim view of radical feminism.
Well, you have deduced correctly, Detective Dupine .
Here is some evidence recently presented at the Court of your Toxic Sales Sultan.
It’s a letter from a woman writing to Slate titled:
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Why Do Average-Looking Men Think They Have a Chance With Me?: Am I less hot than I think?
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The upshot with the painfully tragic but unintentionally amusing letter is that this woman has been living the life of a seqsy strumpet for most of her adulthood.
She’s now in her mid-30’s and can’t seem to grasp why the kind of men she desires don’t see her as the smokin’ hot catch she thinks she is (her humble signature was “Too Sexy”).
It looks like, when she was younger, this village bicyc–[ REDACTED BY THE MOST HOLY INQUISITION] empowered woman was propositioned by a lot of handsome, probably rather successful dudes.
Now that she’s in her mid 30s (you’re only as old as you feel, granny), it seems like those leads have started to dry up and it’s just the average “nice guy” fellas who are showing any interest in her.
She has this problem despite apparently possessing a master’s degree, being in fantastic shape, and boasting an above-average IQ. She even posts thirst trap photos on-line (bikini and lingerie pics) as part of her lead generation strategy.
The advice given by the “experts” responding to her in the article is so bad that she is at risk of being completely alone for the rest of her life (pet dogs and cats don’t count, by the way).
Their advice: DuR, sHe needs tO mOAr AgGrEsSiveLy puRsue ThE mEn.
She might as well learn anger management from the Incredible Hulk
No worries, though, ol’ Uncle Wes has her back.
Here’s what I’d say she needs to do to become desirable again and it’s a fundamental marketing principle:
Sell what your market wants.
Few (high-value) man care that she has a graduate degree.
Few (high-value) men care all that much about her IQ. Emotionally and social intelligence are more useful in this case, after all.
Sure, dudes would like the part about her being in good shape
But it sounds like she’s selling what they DON’T want.
Let me put it in a way she can understand: a Master’s Degree in Intersectional Gender Studies doesn’t make her personality (or “bubes”, since she cares so much about looks) any more appealing.
This principle, by the way, applies far beyond just the dating/relationships niche.
You have to sell people what they want. Otherwise, you’ll find your business’s growth stopped in its tracks.
You can either do some introspection and engage in some problem solving.
Or you can blame the patriarchy, toxic masculinity, the Taliban, or any other scapegoat external to your own rubbish decisions.
If you’re more of an introspective, problem-solving business person, I might be able to help you.
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